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Dec 15, 2015 at 8:29 PM
美国社会现状 The status of the American society
我以前在AT&T上班时, 秘书桌子上一张照片一大家子人. 我随口说一声 ”哇你真的有一个大家庭,” 她马上说 “不是的.” 她告诉我,这一边的是她的孩子,她孩子们结婚了,有孙辈. 那边是孩子的爹,以前的丈夫,然后他又结婚了. 那是他们的孩子. 后排是另外一个丈夫,他也结婚了有他的家,中间那个是他现在的丈夫,还有他们现在的小孩. 美国人家庭变换是常事,大家都坦然处之,孩子也是经常这家住,那家住. 我现在在美国也见多了,根本不当回事. 以前还遇到一个离婚的会计师. 他们结婚多年没有孩子,然后太太就去找一个代孕. 他不想要孩子,太太要孩子. 孕妇是早产儿,孩子不太健康. 当然他不怎么爱那个孩子,过几年还是离婚了. 看多这些故事,黯然!
When I was working at AT&T, I saw a photo on the secretary's desk. I said, "Wow, you really have a big family," she said immediately. "No." She told me, one side were her children, they were married, had grandchildren. Another side was herformer husband, and then he was married again. Those were their children. The back row was another husband, he was also married and had kids. The middle was her current husband, and their current children. The change of American family is a common thing, everyone takes as it is. Children are often living here, there. I now see more in the United States, am used to it. I also met a divorced accountant before. They had no children for many years, and then the wife went to find a surrogate. He does not want children, the wife wants children. The baby was premature, the child was not healthy. Of course he does not love that kid that much. After a few years, divorced. I have seen more of these stories, stunned!
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